Insecurity.

Insecurity. Simple word but full of meaning . 

Yeah, most people have problem with this . 

Just want to discuss about this ;

" If my girlfriend is real pretty or cute or got a lot of attention from many guys, and i feel insecure why do i feel like this ? "

This is general talk, not point to anyone

Just take note to those guys who have problem with this .

Okay, what can i say about this is

First of all, 

she isn't making you feel insecure .

You're doing that by yourself . 

Since she isn't causing it,

she can't make it stop .

Only you can . 

Secondly,

If she's pretty or cute now, 

she was pretty when she picked you .

She didn't decide to pair up with you because she's pretty,

she did it because there's a whole lot to like about you .

Most likely, it's the attention you gave her, 

the kind things you said and did,

the way you made her feel important .

She probably admires certain qualities about you, too .

Most notably, your confidence . 

And also,

If she got many attention from many guys, 

why would you feel insecure when she gives you 100% commitment

and full of attention towards you ?

If you feel insecure they would treat her better than you,

than take it as your challenges

to grab her attention

and show you are the best for her .

Don't ever feel low confidence of yourself,

women is easy,

just show to her that you would fight for her no matter what,

She will respect to you 

And there's no reason for her to leave you .

Thirdly,

no women ever left any man because

she realized she was too pretty to be with him,

(anyway no women who was worth being around) .

Women leave because they don't feel special anymore,

they don't interesting or important anymore .

They don't feel valued anymore . 

You made her feel that way ,

so she got with you .

If you quit making her that way , 

it leaves the door open for others to do it for you .

So at this point,

don't blame her if others do give her attention .

And if the others give her attention, 

deep in her heart

still, she hope that from you .

Then , you should respect and appreciate her

for still being loyal to you

and still look at you

not the others .

Therefore,

Rather than put your time and energy

into warding off 

numbskull who can recognize a pretty face,

nor got many secret admires from others,

Then just put it into

making your girl feel like a million bucks .

If she knows you love her

and you make her feel good ,

she'll walk over a hundred guys to get to you .

Keep calm and be happy :)